Get Girlfriend Back: 3 Proven Reconciliation Methods That Work

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Published: 13th December 2010
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In this article, we shall be discussing three proven reconciliation methods that work and you can use to get your girlfriend back. No matter what caused the initial separation, these proven methods have been shown to work. Although they have been arranged in a particular order, but their successful implementation is not set in stone. In other words, depending on personal preferences and the reality of the situation in your love life, you may wish to rearrange them. However, it is highly recommended that irrespective of the ordering you choose, ensure that the three elements are fully implemented in your reconciliation strategy - in order to get the best results.

* The Grass Is Always Greener Idea: When initial expectations are not fully met, irrespective of what the expectations may be, the first idea that probably struck your ex was that there are 'greater' guys out there. While these may not be totally untrue, walking out on you would not necessarily prove her right. Given her 'post-split' realization of the reality after the first few days - or weeks - of breaking up with you, she would have started reconsidering the folly of her decision and assumptions.

* Tactical Withdrawal: Capitalize on the fact that your separation caused her to have a gap in her life that would not be easily filled by just anyone out there. This can best be done by taking stock of your relationship and refining your re-launch strategy. In her dream-world, she is out and about, expecting to be welcomed by some 'great guys' of her dreams - who realistically - are just not there nor would be forthcoming as she had probably expected. While she is going through that emotional transformation and rediscovery, you should spend the time refining those flaws of yours. The things that sent her packing in the first instance. Think back and identify those areas you and your ex love used to argue about. Any other differences should be similarly addressed to enhance your self-worth and desirability to your girlfriend.

* Work On Your Commitment: The primary commitment that is necessary for any relationship to thrive - whether expressly stated or implied is embodied in the promise of love, cherish, and transparent honesty in every area of the relationship. Even if these were not the real causes of concern in the crisis that led to your separation, you should spend time working on them as they are the pillars of every relationship. When fully developed, they would enable a closer and enduring relationship for both of you. Make no assumptions. Assure her expressly that you are deeply committed to love, cherish, and deal honestly with her. Most ladies appreciate little gestures of love. Like everybody else, your lady wants to be cherished and loved unconditionally - and wants you to reassure her of your commitment in very clear terms. To achieve these little things need no rocket-science education, but by being thoughtful and kind.

Summary: Once the partners in love are able to ensure that these three things are in place, the rest of the requirements of a relationship are a formality. The three things are: seeking greener pastures, Maneuvering or using tactical withdrawal as a tool for crisis resolution, and, absolute loyalty while their love blossoms. Love-life - and, indeed - every conjugal relationship need to be nurtured with the basic elements of trust and affection. These do not require any financial commitments beyond whatever the couple can reasonably afford. In reading this article, the prescribed steps may seem very obvious, but failure to address them has caused many people to suffer unnecessarily. Take necessary action today and see how simple things like these work wonders to get your girlfriend back. Good luck.


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